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We don't lose by not winning, we lose by our thoughts and attitude. When you believe in yourself and when you are determined to do something there is no force on earth that can stop you. Life is a game where learning is important, winning is just a bonus. We suffer not because people do something or the circumstances are adverse but because we allow them to. We give up because it's an easy option, but try standing up for yourself against all the odds and one day you will win without winning. There is no secret, no psychology nothing, the only secret is you need to believe in yourself, so much so that your competition loses their moral before facing you. Instead of giving up, challenge yourself to do something and explore new horizons. Have emotions but don't let it affect your decisions. Do what is correct. Life would be much easier if brain had heart and heart had brain but since that is not the case, it is important to be emotionally smart. Don't let something toxic stay in your life. People are replaceable but you are not. Be with few but make sure they contribute to your happiness, growth and success. The most important thing you need to do for yourself is to be and stay yourself. The world out there will judge you at every step, peers will pressurize you, but you have to battle it. Love yourself so much that people start hating themselves for not being you. Once you will start putting yourself ahead of people, you will understand where you were wrong. People always have agendas, so if you get cheated by someone sometime, don't blame them. Also, always have a perspective and always stick to your words, don't get fooled by every conman you come across. The only reason you stay behind is because you don't think you can win. You are a fucking amazing person with everything to love about. Never ever lose yourself for someone.