To err is human and to care too much is foolish. We may not have a big heart for donation, but when it comes to giving a f**k, we never hesitate. Most of us won't admit, most of us will put up a charade, but we do give a lot of f**k. We become someone else to gain approval of people, to get accepted in social circles and to please them. Many of us are so paranoid of social and peer pressure that we make all our decisions and choices by keeping them in mind. We have stopped listening to our heart and mind since we have started hearing " Log kya kahenge?"!
Life is too short to regret, so instead of doing what people want you to do, instead of becoming the version that people want you to be, become who you want, do what you want.
Nobody cares: Don't give yourself so much importance because people don't care as much as you think they do. It's you who care and it's in your mind that they care. People are too busy with their lives and it's human nature to criticize others for our own shortcomings. So whatever you do, do it for yourself.
You are not nutella: Read that? You cannot please everybody, you are not nutella. Every person in your life has different expectations from you and you cannot just fulfill everybody's expectation because expectations are unending. You cannot be the ranker your parents want you to be, you cannot be the boyfriend your girlfriend expects you to be, you cannot be the employee your boss wishes you to be. It's not possible to please everybody, but it is possible to please yourself.
Nobody cares: Don't give yourself so much importance because people don't care as much as you think they do. It's you who care and it's in your mind that they care. People are too busy with their lives and it's human nature to criticize others for our own shortcomings. So whatever you do, do it for yourself.
You are not nutella: Read that? You cannot please everybody, you are not nutella. Every person in your life has different expectations from you and you cannot just fulfill everybody's expectation because expectations are unending. You cannot be the ranker your parents want you to be, you cannot be the boyfriend your girlfriend expects you to be, you cannot be the employee your boss wishes you to be. It's not possible to please everybody, but it is possible to please yourself.
Have a say: Don't just say yes to everything that has been told or asked to you. Have a perspective, have an opinion and learn to take a stand in something you believe in. Also, learn to say NO to things and people. Once you start being for yourself, you stop giving a shit to what others have to say.
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