Relationships have become nothing more than a status. It has almost become like a competition and people end up at wrong places due to that peer pressure. We fail to see what this peer pressure has done to us. The impact of this pressure is not only physical but psychological as well.
Relationships have become more about how you look than how you are. If you are not fat, if you are not dark, if you have an air of swag around you, if you have a swanky car and if you hangout at high-end places, you are a package. If you are not anything from this list, you will feel the heat. People have made relationship a barometer and I don't know to measure what! But those people who can't stand this pressure usually end up abusing their body in one way or the other. It leaves such a psychological impact on a person that the person hates to look at themselves in the mirror. It's very important to accept yourself and love who you are. It's the only way to attend peace. Even those who are fit and perfect feel the pressure of staying the same, looking same. Where we need conscience today, people are just becoming conscious and that too in every wrong way. One bad selfie can ruin a day. When you find out that the L size doesn't suit you much, you stop eating. When you feel that abs are a must to get a girlfriend, you join the best gym with a personal trainer even though your parents cannot afford it.
We are all doing wrong things and we need to think about it. By prioritising how we look, we are only pushing ourselves towards validation. We don't need people to accept us, we need to accept ourselves. Remember when they fall for you, they should fall for who you are and how you are and not how you look. Beauty is temporary, you are forever. Just because you don't fit their definition of perfect, doesn't mean you are flawed
Relationships have become more about how you look than how you are. If you are not fat, if you are not dark, if you have an air of swag around you, if you have a swanky car and if you hangout at high-end places, you are a package. If you are not anything from this list, you will feel the heat. People have made relationship a barometer and I don't know to measure what! But those people who can't stand this pressure usually end up abusing their body in one way or the other. It leaves such a psychological impact on a person that the person hates to look at themselves in the mirror. It's very important to accept yourself and love who you are. It's the only way to attend peace. Even those who are fit and perfect feel the pressure of staying the same, looking same. Where we need conscience today, people are just becoming conscious and that too in every wrong way. One bad selfie can ruin a day. When you find out that the L size doesn't suit you much, you stop eating. When you feel that abs are a must to get a girlfriend, you join the best gym with a personal trainer even though your parents cannot afford it.
We are all doing wrong things and we need to think about it. By prioritising how we look, we are only pushing ourselves towards validation. We don't need people to accept us, we need to accept ourselves. Remember when they fall for you, they should fall for who you are and how you are and not how you look. Beauty is temporary, you are forever. Just because you don't fit their definition of perfect, doesn't mean you are flawed
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